It’s the Little Things That Matter in a Relationship

In a world buzzing with grand gestures—proposals at sunset, surprise vacations, and social media declarations—it’s easy to think that love must always be loud to be meaningful. Yet, as headlines fill with stories of celebrity divorces and fleeting romances, one truth remains constant: the small, everyday acts of love matter most. 

Consider this: when was the last time someone packed your favorite snack without being asked or sent a "thinking of you" text during a hectic day? These moments may seem trivial, but they create the fabric of lasting relationships. 

This idea is beautifully captured in Sticky Notes & Love Poems, a poetry collection by Kayla Griffin and Mark Galaviz. The book reminds us that love doesn't need to be extravagant to be powerful. Sometimes, it’s as simple as a sticky note tucked into a lunchbox. 

The Power of Everyday Love 

Big gestures may spark love, but small ones sustain it. Research shows that couples who express appreciation and kindness daily are likelier to stay together. These acts—making coffee, holding hands, or leaving notes—build emotional security over time. 

As told in their book, Kayla and Mark's story exemplifies this. Kayla, a self-described "chaotic raccoon," and Mark, a retired military man, struggled with clashing lifestyles when they first moved in together. Yet, instead of letting their differences divide them, they found harmony through small, intentional acts. 

Mark wrote Kayla a note every day for a year. These notes served as daily reminders of his unwavering commitment. These notes formed the heart of Sticky Notes & Love Poems, showing that love is a continuous choice to care—even when life gets messy. 

Why Small Gestures Matter 

1. They Build Emotional Trust: A sticky note, a cup of tea, or a warm blanket shows that you care about your partner's needs.

2. They're Sustainable: Grand gestures are rare; small ones can happen daily. 

3. They Create Connection: Like Mark's notes, repeated acts become traditions that deepen intimacy. 

Practical Ways to Prioritize the Little Things 

Say Thank You Often: Acknowledge your partner’s efforts, no matter how small. 

Be Present: Put your phone down and listen actively. 

Show Affection: Hugs, kisses, and cuddles speak volumes. 

Leave Notes or Messages: Inspired by Kayla and Mark? Try leaving notes for your partner where they least expect it. 

A Book That Celebrates Real Love 

In Sticky Notes & Love Poems, pages are filled with the lessons Kayla and Mark learned through their relationship: love isn’t perfect, but it’s worth it. 

Their story reminds us that love is a lifestyle, not a single event. It’s about making space for one another and appreciating the beauty in imperfection. 

About the Authors

Kayla Griffin and Mark Galaviz are partners who turned their everyday love story into a timeless poetry collection. Inspired by Mark's daily notes to Kayla, they share their journey to inspire others to cherish the simple joys of love.